Her pride/confidence had departed without any support, and I was the one who emerged from an ordeal/test.

This profound couplet speaks of both external danger and internal endurance. The first line suggests that the beloved's words or actions are inherently dangerous—like arrows shot without a bow, meaning they are spontaneous and uncontrolled. But the second line shifts the focus inward. The poet reveals that while the beloved's actions are perilous, his own journey through love and life has been a grueling 'test.' He survived the trial, suggesting a strength found through suffering.