Kabir says that laughing from afar and weeping from the heart are the same state. How can one find the beloved love without weeping?

Kabir suggests that laughing from afar and weeping from the heart are two sides of the same coin. True love, like life itself, requires both the joy of realization and the ache of separation. He teaches that profound emotional experiences and the sweetness of the beloved's love can only be found through a mixture of tears and yearning.