The lover does not exert any pull, yet the beloved is compelled to drink. The server of wine (Saaki) should not drink themselves, but you have disregarded this rule.

This couplet talks about a rule that wasn't followed. In matters of love, a lover might draw attention, and the beloved might have to respond. But there's a special unspoken rule for the Saaqi, who traditionally serves the wine. The Saaqi shouldn't drink what they offer. This rule could represent maintaining a certain dignity or the sacredness of their role. The verse directly states that this important rule was broken, indicating a lapse in proper conduct or expected behavior, perhaps implying a blurring of lines or a loss of self-control where it wasn't appropriate.